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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I had a wonderful day all in all.

We sit down for dinner.

[b]Him: I feel like my friends and I are all misfits. We're the island of misfit toys. We are always searching for something. 
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Me: (annoyed that her 30 year old husband is talking like an emo teen) How are you a misfit? Shouldn't we have grown out of this phase and become functioning adults who have real worries such as the fact that you aren't inclined to create a 401K account even though I have been begging you for it for years.

Him: (angry) you are attacking me like a snake.

Me: (angry) you're acting like a child. I want to hear to talk about being responsible and not about some fantasy of being a misfit like you're in high school.

Him: (angry) you don't understand me. I'm creating walls around myself to protect myself from you.

He leaves and is now in the bedroom ignoring me.

I was being mean but I am sick of him having his head in the clouds and ruminating over existential issues when we have real life to deal with. I have anxiety because of this. I am at my wits ends!

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You don't have kids or own a home.  Correct?  How long have you been married?

He doesn't have a 401K and you treat him like a child by nagging him.  Are you his mother?

It sounds like a very bad dynamic.  Don't have children with him.[/quote]

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