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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Yep, a Thursday wedding.  The actual wedding is not a big event (we're having a large celebration in the fall, this is a small legal ceremony with immediately family only).

I also wonder if the woman knew--but so far it seems truly that it was chance and she doesn't know he's with me.  In any case, irrelevant.

I agree with PPs who say that dating IS complicated in your 30s and no one can be expected not to have a past.  What bothers me is that I asked him directly a few times why he had such discomfort about going into the building and he chose to mislead me.

I don't really believe in "fate" per se but I have wondered if finding this out right before marriage is supposed to be a wake up call.  I agree I'm probably blowing this out of proportion.  Thanks for the perspective, all.[/quote]

If this woman truly didn't know when she sought you out, if she'd had any class she wouldn't have told you about their history once she figured it out. My guess is he didn't say anything because it was insignificant to him and he didn't want to make you uncomfortable in your church, but this woman sought you out because it was significant to her and she wanted to hurt him/you by outing him.[/quote]

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