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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, yes they have one child together. I understand trying to be civil/mature for your child’s sake, but I do think the family vacations are too much.[/quote] How recent and how often were the vacations? How long have they been divorced for? [/quote] The last vacation was last summer and they have another planned for July. They’ve been divorced for three years, separated for two prior to the divorce.[/quote] So, once a year? That doesn't actually seem like a red flag. And you're not a spouse or a fiancee, you're a girlfriend. I wouldn't expect a parent to accord their boy/girlfriend the same level of importance as a spouse, and certainly nowhere near the importance of a child. If your relationship gets more serious, then I would expect that things might naturally change, but if you barrel in and demand that he change something that he's doing for his kid's sake, you're asking for trouble. [/quote]
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