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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] There doesn't have to be something "romantic" going on for the level of emotional involvement to be inappropriate. I would expect my partner to prioritize traveling with me (along with the child, of course), not with the ex. Money and vacation time are limited. [/quote] If you think you should be the priority over his child, you're not the person for him. What he feels is important for the child should always come before what is important for his relationship with you, and now he feels vacations with the original nuclear family are important. If you can't get on board with that you need to end this relationship. That said, if you get serious enough, I think you should always be included in these vacations with the ex. But I don't think he needs to spend money for vacations with the 3 of you before spending money on vacations with the child's mother. [/quote]
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