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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are sort of in a rut.  But he makes sure coffee is ready for us in the morning.  I told him how nice it was to wake up and have it made before I leave for work.

He buys me chocolate bars if I ask him to if he’s going to the store, maybe once a month.

He makes me breakfast on the weekend mornings if I’m hungry and want more than yogurt.

He buys me flowers on Valentine’s Day.  I actually don’t care about this, but he thinks I do so it’s nice.[/quote]

Mine does little things like this. He’s certainly not over the top romantic, but like this PP, if he makes food or stops for a snack or something, he’ll make me some. He’ll pick me up my favorite candy bar if he stops somewhere that carries it. He’ll take my car in a weekend morning and wash it and detail the inside without me asking.

You need to address this now. I was married once before and it felt like you described. It sounds silly but the sex was a big part of it. We fell into the “once every few weeks” things and that was like a death knell. And XH wasn’t affectionate outside of those far between sex days—no hand holding or much kissing, etc. People on this board, especially women, try to discount the sex aspect of marriage but he truth is, you marry someone because of that. If you didn’t, you’d marry your best friend or favorite roommate. Sex is essential to a successful marriage. [/quote]

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