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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Huh, really? I have no trouble finding guys to go on casual dates and have sex with but that isn't what I want. I want a monogamous relationship. Instead I meet good looking interesting guys who want to take me out to nice places and then have sex within several dates but never commit. Sounds like that is what you want. I am 41 and never been married and don't have kids. Have been primarily dating divorced dads the past year and that is what I get. I'm ok looking but nothing spectacular. [/quote]

I feel just like this. I meet interesting attractive men and it feels like things are going well and then suddenly that’s it, no contact. I feel sad and like it’s never going to work out but I would like a relationship. My friends, both men and women, think it’s odd too-I asked them their opinion of me/dating potential, honestly! Maybe I have sex too quickly but I feel like I do it when i am ready. Seems like the men I meet are looking for something different but I wish there could just be more honesty. It’s tough!
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I posted what you are responding to and also the above about waiting to have sex. I really feel like women need to hold men to higher standards of behavior, ask them about their intent and whether they will be exclusive if they are sleeping together before they have sex rather than have sex and hope it becomes exclusive. Online dating makes it easier for men to just casually sleep with women and move on and not commit. If women didnt sleep with men so casually and quickly, men couldn't get away with this poor behavior. Women are letting men treat them like crap. We deserve better and we should ask for better and if we don't get it, move on until we find someone who does treat us well.[/quote]

I think you are probably right. I have always felt sex was right when I felt comfortable and another way of seeing what someone is really like but that approach just hasn’t worked. The man moves on and I just feel sad as I think we had a real connection. It was just words to him i guess, but I meant it. What acmess! I am rethinking what I do. Thanks for posting-it helps to know you and probably many of us have the same experience [/quote]

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