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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]15-16 has worked well for my family. As a teacher, I can tell you that not much actual dating occurs anymore. The trend seems to be just friends turning into intense romantic relationships. Duration and sexual activity vary widely.[/quote]

This is my concern too.  My 15 yr/old explains that real dating seems to be reserved for upper classmen in HS.  I would much prefer my DD go on an actual date than just make-out at a party or declare yourself a "thing" because you text each other frequently (both of which seem to be much more common).  Teens need to learn about interacting in person and that those interactions matter.

What are your concerns about dating specifically.  Distraction from school work? The kids don't identify sexual activity with "dating" necessarily.  So you need to think about what specific message you are trying to convey and make sure you are communicating it sufficiently.  Ask you DD what "dating means" in her world; what if kids have a mutual crush on each other and everyone knows it . . . are the "dating"?  What is "talking"?  What is and "official couple"? You'll soon find out your labels and hers may not be the same.  You can't prevent a mutual crush and the kids may label that something.  So, open dialogue may be a good idea.  [/quote]

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