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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think if you have a good relationship you can be direct and say "I really value the fact that we work so well as coparents and respect each other. You may have noticed that I don't come into your house when I drop the kids off. It would feel better to me if you didn't come into my house unless I invite you."[/quote] He's deliberately ignoring the fact that Op does not go into his house. Why? Because the woman that he cheated with lives there and that is never going to be an issue for him. By always walking into Op's house with the kids he is showing that he *still* has the upper hand with Op. He still calls the shots. If Op says something to him she is going to look like the standoffish "bad guy" - the one who doesn't want to be nice to daddy. Eff him. Wash the car, give him a friendly wave but be too busy for him. He encounters that enough he'll get the hint.[/quote]
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