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[quote=Anonymous] Yes, MIL was awfully rude. You don't ever tell someone to leave a public building! If protective of you, she could have asked her not to come in, but wait a bit, sat with her, made conversation. Your friend could then have stayed for however long she was ready to wait, and perhaps said a quick hello at some point, or stayed to meet the baby. But telling her to LEAVE??? That's is completely beyond the pale. It's crystal clear it was protection of you, but a wish to be the only one present at the birth, that motivated her. I would not bring it up now, but for your next birth, I would definitely tell MIL directly that X and Y friends are EXPECTED and that you did not appreciate what she did during the first birth. I would also tell DH, so that everyone is on the same page. Tell, don't ask. This is your day, more so than the wedding! [/quote]
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