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[quote=Anonymous]Do people still send birthday, mother's day, father's day cards or texts to their in laws? I feel like I should take the high road and be respectful enough to acknowledge these events but then I am hurt when they don't respond to my text or acknowledge receiving a card. When we send a gift (that I always coordinate), they will text or call DH. I think I deserve a minimal level of respect as the mother of their grandchild and wife of their son and sometimes debate not allowing my DD to be around them since it makes no sense to have my child be around people who don't show any respect to me. I haven't gone this far yet, but I feel like they blame me for things they should really blame DH for - not seeing them enough, spending more time with my family, or other perceived slights.[/quote]
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