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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex girlfriend had a fling over a week period. We were close to breaking up and had a bad relationship and we both were immature and bad communicators. 
I found out, we broke up, got back together. Dated another 5 years and then I cheated on her by having an affair with a married coworker.

I can tell you that she regretted her fling and years later was disgusted with herself.
I’m disgusted with myself as well and regret what I did. [quote]I know the woman chose to have an affair but I hurt that young family immensely.[/quote]

I hope I learn from my actions. You have not. Go seek help[/quote]

Did the guy confront you? I would have kicked her to the curb and then beaten you senseless. [/quote]

I wasn't the first person she cheated with apparently, so I think her husband wasn't as angry with me. They had a 3 year old at the time. I did so out of revenge to my girlfriend at the time. I found myself wanting to inflict pain on her. The woman was a serial cheater i think, so she just wanted to fee lust and desire. It all blew up in my face when i ended it. She told my ex who told her husband.
My ex, by that time, had taken therapy and really worked on herself. I hurt her a lot with my actions since we were in a pretty good place in our relationship and were actually talking marriage. We were more open and vulnerable...well she was. My affair lasted a few months. We tried moving on, but she was too hurt. I ended up breaking it off with her .

This was 3 years ago. I haven't dated anyone since. A couple of ONS but I am still working on myself. She hasn't dated anyone either. We spoke a month ago...I think I am going to make a move. [/quote]

So she cheats when your relationship is in the dumps, you patch it up. work on each other, or rather she works on herself. You go off and have a pretty lengthy affair and destroy a family, hurt your ex and then dump her, and now you want her back. I get that relationships are hard, but boy, you just want to live a miserable life.

Sounds like you're remorseful at least. Not dating for 3 years is a long time. You should do something about that. [/quote]

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