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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]http://luluandlattes.com/2016/09/11/updated-mitzvah-gift-giving-guide/ Always cash at Bar Mitz. And there are recommended amounts to give. I $500 when invited as my wife and kids invited. $1,000 gifts from closer family members. Thing cost $35,000. And yes the Mom usually kvetches with cost and details for the year leading up. So most folks know cost and if don't pay just send kids. A kid can get away with as little $36. My brother and wife gave $1,000 he got invited to EVP in his company kids party. WTF. No. The most our wedding was $180, from aunts, uncles, etc. We are not raising our kids religious, don’t belong to a temple, will not do mitzvahs, etc. But for upcoming nieces and nephews we’ll give $360 and even that I feel is absurd. Even the parents of the child want to call us cheap behind our back, I don’t GAF. It would be different if these people were religious but it’s totally social for them. What a charade! [/quote][/quote]
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