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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, consider that the more people who love your daughter, and the more people she loves, in the world is a good thing.

Love isn’t a finite resource. It’s not a competition. What your ex is saying is hurtful, but I’m sure it’s at least one reason why he’s the ex. [/quote]

Love doesn't come with claims. Love only wants to give.

A friend of mine was going through similar issues when her ex-DH family tried to tell her what to do with her children on the basis of "we are family too and we love her so we have the right to weigh in".  She had a perfect comeback.  "You say you love her? Prove it. Put your house in my DD's name and then we'll talk.  Don't send love, send money. Otherwise  you're just dealing in words."[/quote]

Sorry, what? You think it was a good comeback to respond that money = love? That if Ex-DH wasn't willing to give away his house, he didn't love his DD? WTF? I don't know anything about the particulars of their situation, but holy shit is that a terrible message to send to her DD.[/quote]

Learn to read, will you? I wrote "ex-DH's family".  Family.  Not her father.  I personally thought it was a perfect come back to put in their place random cousins, uncles and aunts who all had opinions on how DD ought to be raised because "we are family and we love her". [/quote]

But is the mom’s house in DD’s name? Unless the answer is yes, then she also doesn’t “love DD enough” even by her own standards. [/quote]

She loved her enough to birth her.  Other people have to do other things. [/quote]

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