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[quote=Anonymous]This is OP. Just to clarify my concerns: I'm not worried that XH has a GF and I'm not worried whether DD "loves" her or me more. I'm worried my XH is using the GF as a reason to 1) argue for expanded custody (we have 50/50 currently) and 2) is talking to our child about this ("but you love GF so much, wouldn't you like to see her more?" etc). It would not be the first time XH has "complained" about me being "rigid" and "unreasonable" to DD. I can easily see how the little insinuations will go ("well, your mother won't let new GF and you go to American Girl Doll store for tea because your mother wouldn't give us that weekend," etc.) I want advice on how to discuss expanded custody with XH. I'm not inclined to do it for any reason--but particularly this reason--but obviously don't want to fan the flames of acrimony. And I want advice about how to talk with DD if she gets put into the middle of this quarrel.[/quote]
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