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[quote=Anonymous]Ok everyone thanks for your replies. I did meet up with H last night and we talked very calmly. He knows I am done arguing about his sister and I think he is too. We agreed to disagree and we are no longer going to supervise SIL visitation when she gets it back. He also acknowledged his sister was toxic and he said until we get back on track he would make sure his sister kept her distance. He said the GAL recommended that she get 1 hour per week visitation for 60 days monitored by a professional. After that if there is progress increase the weekly time but there will be no weekend visitation for the next few months at least. We have a good relationship with our nieces dad and he has not prevented us from having contact with her outside of her visitations with her mother. His only stipulation has been that she cannot stay over at the grandparents. They can see her though at our house. There is still tension but I think H now realizes I did not have any bad intent toward his sister but it was for the good of our niece. We are definitely going to see a counselor.[/quote]
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