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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry everyone’s being so rude OP.

I’d have a problem too. Being friendly and charming is one thing, flirty is another. I think it’s rude to flirt with a married man in front of his wife, I don’t care if you’re trying to sell him a piece of jewelry for his wife, just don’t do it.

I’d get a new realtor and ask that DH not engage if something like that ever happened again. It’s not about insecurity, it’s about respect. [/quote]

Thanks to any reasonable answers and sympathy. I agree, it's about respect. I can't understand why any business professional would act in that way towards a married man. At the end of the day I realized that I need to communicate to my DH my concerns and expectations. Prior to this experience, most women I've/we've worked with were very respectful and had strong boundaries....pediatricians, doctors, teachers, even the damn cashiers are emotionally reserved. Our realtor is loosey goosey, flirtatious, emotional supportive towards men and very available. Really, if I think about it her job sets up a situation where an emotional affair or an affair could easily happen for her. All these e-mails back and forth, being constantly available to meet up at all times to show homes, being flirty and laughing at everything, dressing sexy, ugh. Over it. [/quote]

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