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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got annoyed after these 3 meetings with the realtor and told me DH that he should act in a polite, friendly but emotionally reserved way to woman he meets for business. I mean, especially if I am there. After that he started ccing me on all e-mails and surprisingly or not the realtor stopped writing in length with DH, stopped writing emotional things such as "sorry about the loss but we'll find the right one", and when I tried asking her a question for the first time through e-mail she gave me a very basic short answer.

Thoughts?[/quote]

What’s the problem?  She was being overly flirty with your DH and he was playing the game.  You called it out with him and now he is to the point/not engaging and keeping you in the loop.  What more are you looking for?  If you wanted a realtor that would hold your hand thru the process and not your DH, you either didn’t pick the right realtor or as you said you didn’t begin the way you meant to go on by having your DH initiate all the initial contact/correspondence.

At the point, you need to make the best of working with this realtor.  You made the decision to hire her same as your husband and you don’t want to come off like nothing will make you happy. If her very basic, short answer did not answer your question, either ask a follow-up question via email or pick up the phone and have a conversation to get the information you need.  I remember with my first house I had questions about details in the settlement paperwork and the settlement attorney was trying to push me off with “oh this is standard language...” I was insistent that I needed to understand what I was signing because I was the one on the hook for what I sign.  Not only could they not argue with that, I feel like that was part of the service they were being paid for.  It wasn’t this dramatic thing, I was very matter of fact.[/quote]

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