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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I would suggest that you now have a professional monitor take over the visits. [/b]I know that then you wouldn't get to see your niece but it would take you off the hot seat here. Also if you haven't yet, you might do some reading up on the dynamics of addiction in families. And the reality is if people want to behave like a codependent you can't stop them from doing it - just like you can't make an addict stop using. But it might be helpful to understand this better nevertheless. Good luck, OP! Hope it gets better![/quote] Yep. If her parents enabled her, well, their over-reaction could be expected. It sounds like your DH has fallen into that trap--can't handle that there are consequences for the actions his sister made, and it's easier to dump on you. Go home and work this out--but be clear that at the very least, you and he won't be supervising visits once re-established. That's the agreement you need to come to.[/quote]
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