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[quote=Anonymous]Hmm. Historically there were a lot of these kinds of pragmatic marriages that were not based on love but for compatibility. The couple could often grow quite fond of each other and the shared resources allowed each other to get on with life. The ideal marriage is based on love but that doesn't mean there can't be other kinds of marriages.

If you are very fond of this man, have a low sex drive, and both of you enjoy each other's company and do not need sex from each other, then why not give it a shot? There are two risks I can see: 1) getting married and living together is not always going to turn out to be the same as your current relationship, things might change and you might not like it, and 3) he may meet another man, and 3) the implications of this kind of marriage with children in the house. Your kids are 19 and 16 and by inference I assume the 16 is still living at home? If you marry but it quickly sours that could be troublesome for the kids. Do the kids know that he is bisexual?

If I were you, I'd have an "engagement" that lasted until the youngest child has left home (2-3 years?) and if you and your partner are still keen for it, go for it. Just make sure all your assets are protected with a firm prenup. [/quote]

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