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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm an MSNV parent and just saw this thread. I'm shocked that someone would say that a crying child would not be comforted! My child is exceptionally sensitive and anxious and the reason we chose MSNV is because it is such a loving environment. They have been extremely kind and supportive, and what's more, they have taught all the children to be supportive as well. She and her MSNV friends knew to give hugs and pats on the back and ask "how can I help?" to a crying friend from a very young age. The emphasis on social and emotional skills is truly one of the great things about MSNV. That said, I'm deciding whether to keep my child at the school, and it's difficult that I can't have an honest conversation with the teachers about whether Montessori is right for my child, or whether they can do additional things to help her at school if Montessori isn't quite right for her, because in their minds Montessori is perfect for everyone, and that's that. I do not regret in the slightest sending my child there, but it is the case that people in the community - and it is a strong community - are kind of obsessed with the school.[/quote] I am the parent who first made this comment some time ago. I understand that your experience may be different, but this is what I witnessed during our visit there. A teacher sat with the child, talked to her, and encouraged her to calm down. However, there was no hugging, patting on the shoulders, or any type of physical touch. I also have an exceptionally sensitive child who at that age was calmed most easily by a hug. Being spoken to rationally would have done nothing to help her. [/quote]
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