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[quote=Anonymous]If it’s a home project that benefits both of you, he should help. If it’s a fluff project he didn’t plan, maybe wasn’t even aware of, isn’t a necessary upgrade, and was totally your idea, you shouldn’t ask for help in my opinion. My DH doesn’t ask me for help on his pet projects like building a bar out of wood, and I don’t ask for his help buying hanging plants. Neither thing is necessary to do. We both are busy and cherish down time, so neither of us sees the need to drag the other into an “optional” project. Sure it’s respectful to help out when asked, but it’s also respectful not to ask for help on unnecessary or frivolous things. [/quote]
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