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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So out of curiousity, OP, those years she SAH, how present were you in day to day life, especially since you were “allowed to put all your energy into work”?[/quote] OP here. I traveled a lot for work but when I was home, I was present and a participating member of our household. Not to the extent that I was today. The main difference is that my DW as the air traffic controller ensuring everything got done. As I've learned, the execution part of it is burdensome but it's the mental burden of ensuring that everything gets covered that is more taxing I believe, if that makes sense. She bore that mental burden during the time she was at home. [/quote]
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