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[quote=Anonymous]OP, why would you assume that your DH is going to happy with the status quo forever? Brokeback Mountain, or Gov. Sanford on the Appalachian Trail, notwithstanding, this is not the 1950s and presumably your DH isn't a governor worried about the next election. At some point, maybe your DH decides the hell with camping, he wants whatever he's getting to be his normal, everyday life, not just his vacation fling.

You would be well-advised to figure out what his and your assets and consult a divorce attorney. It's not going to get any better if you wait until he makes a decision and springs something on you.

You don't have to get divorced, or even confront your husband, just because you talk to an attorney and get a picture of what your rights and obligations would be in a divorce, and how you might go about acting now to protect yourself in that eventuality.

I'd also go to your gynecologist and get a full STD panel, assuming you and your husband still have sex when he's not off "camping."

But you do need to take your head out of the sand and make decisions. It's your life, and you need to take charge of it.[/quote]

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