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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How long did it take you to become engaged/married ( once you found a partner) and have a child? Did you feel the need to rush with the older age or take it slowly? [/quote]

At 32, it is easier to figure out if the relationship has legs. It shouldn't take years at each stage.  So 6 months of dating exclusively, intentionally and several times a week (with at least one vacation together), I would consider engagement.   Marriage could be 6 months later.  I would wait one year before starting try to have children.  You want one year under your belt, it is enough time for the party manners to fall and get into a more normal lifestyle.  DH and I moved in together after engagement and that helped us figure out that we were compatible in closer quarters.

I was 30 when we married and DH was 33.  I was the youngest in my family to marry.  My parents were 32 and 33 (Mom was 33) and my sister was 34 when she married.  All of us had children in the end of the second year of marriage.  My parents were married 50+ years and my sister and I are at 21 and 24 and counting. [/quote]

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