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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It takes time. I hated hearing that - I didn't want to wait, I wanted the fasttrack secret to feeling better. But truly, time helps immensely. There are a lot of questions you will have, a lot of realizations you will come to, a lot of feelings you will work through... and with each step, you will feel whole again. [/quote] +1 It took me a few weeks to get past the non-functional/crying all the time/not eating part. Life got a lot easier once we actually lived in separate homes, and after that it took about 6 months to start feeling better. Stuff that helped: -reaching out to friends and family and letting them show up for me -exercise (I would make myself do 10 pushups every time I wanted to send an angry or sad text to my ex) -therapy -moderate amounts of wine/weed/dating[/quote]
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