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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is his definition of "on board?" When it comes to living arrangements, I have simple needs. If it's clean and functional, I'm good. My wife has more elaborate tastes. So if she wants a remodel, chances are that I could easily live with out it and would choose to use our money on retirement or travel. That said, if she thinks we have the money and wants to deal with it, I would be "on board" in the sense that I'm not going to complain if she goes ahead with it.

However, if she wants to make that circus my problem, I can see where I'd get resentful. Particularly if she wanted me to stick to her time table.

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When we bought this house, from the beggining we agreed it needs a complete remodel. House is 45 years old and nothing was ever done. So yes, the remodel was the plan. I didn't know though I will have to do it all myself. His excuse is that I work from home, so it's easy for me to schedule estimates etc.
Oh I would like to add that his parents moved to our state and lived with us for 2 months, while I was working,cleaning after everyone and doing the Reno.[/quote]

You aren't doing it by your self.  You are hiring and managing contractors.  [/quote]

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