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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When he and you are calm, have a discussion about home maintenance. You need  to change your method.  I would post a LIST of things that needed done, including calls to contractors or items to be picked up from Home Depot. Sign off on who is doing what item. Lists take the nagging aspect away from chores.  If all else fails, I quit doing extra things for everyone in my house if they think they are not required to participate in the running of the household. 
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12:07 here. This is a great suggestion. You need to change the way you’re communicating. Making a list and then posting it somewhere like the fridge would help resolve some of this. You could create it together as you talk and include who will take care of the task and negotiate by what date it would be completed. [/quote]

Better yet, next time, make a list of who is going to do what *before* you initiate the project. That way he (and you) can decide whether the project is worth the hassle. [/quote]

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