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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Outsource the laundry. I hired a twice weekly housekeeper who does the laundry, and it has been awesome. Gives me more time, takes weight off DH (felt bad about the work imbalance). Cheaper than couples therapy.[/quote] OP doesn't want solutions, she wants to complain. I can not imagine that outsourcing the laundry, cleaning, or cooking aren't options discussed in her SES circle. I know they are common themes in the 100k to 200k HHI income bracket very frequently. A family member's wife, who is a SAHW (no kids) complained that her husband had not packed his share of the house for the upcoming move. I listened and just shook my head. [/quote] OP here ... sorry I am venting. I guess it comes off as complaining. And "my circle" of friends are not in the same SES as my family and we don't discuss outsourcing everything. We do have someone clean every other week and this is the first time we are having yard service come in but other than that everything comes down to me for our household. I do most of it willingly but sometimes I need to vent and I feel bad dumping it on my DH when he is working insane hours to provide for our family. [/quote]
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