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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn’t go and wouldn’t allow my children to be around someone who thinks it’s ok to speak ill of me. If DH still wants to go, I wouldn’t stand in his way.[/quote] This is OP. My husband and I had decided we won’t be going. I’m just not even sure how I proceed with this relationship going forward. [/quote] I would try not to worry too much about the future at this moment. Let her figure out how to make this right, or not. Focus on yourself and your family. I have a narcisstic Mom and we are no contact. But I didn’t decide that all at once. I kept hoping she’d change or reach out and she never did. It’s been 3 years and it’s less of a big deal with each passing day. We also had some major drama with my MIL-she wrote a nasty email about me to DH and my brothers in law. We haven’t spoken to her since. I’ve told DH that if he really wants a relationship, we can figure something out (some kind of limited contact). He said she had to make things right herself. She never has. We haven’t seen her in over a year. Our life is so much more peaceful and happy without the drama and negativity and hatred these people brought into our lives.[/quote]
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