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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. If I felt I could endure the situation I would absolutely stay with my husband for the well being of my kids. However it is day to day sometimes and I know I can't stay in this relationship for the long run. So, I really appreciate the input about the effects on kids when they go to college. Maybe I will have to make it longer and wait. But, I will be my kids mother forever, and even though a divorce might be painful I think it is better than having a broken person as their mom for the rest of their life. I can fake it for a while but not forever. [/quote] Op, people are not saying to keep faking it for longer. They’re saying stop faking, get divorced now. That way your child will not have to deal with the upheaval of going to college and her parents’ divorce at the same time. She also won’t have to blame herself either for the divorce or for you staying in an unhappy marriage until she goes to college. [/quote]
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