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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're 29 and just started a 4 yr program.  That means you'll be 33 when you're done.  For the next 4 years, you're primary focus will be school and I'll assume you also have a job.  That doesn't leave a lot of time for dating.  Depending upon how you are paying for your education, there maybe debt at the end.

By 33, you're going to want to start a family.  What time does that leave for just the 2 of you?  Maybe he is not looking for someone that comes into a marriage with potential debt, lack of time for the relationship, and a desire to start a family before the biological clock starts clanging.

I wouldn't say that you are out of his league, just that the two of you are at 
different places in life right now.  FWIW--I'm female and I can see his perspective.[/quote]

Op here. I am fully aware that with being older and starting a new career, I won’t been seen as that great of a catch. I want to further my career because it’s the best choice for me. I know it will benefit me later in life once I have a family.

I do not expect anyone to take on any debt. I will be paying fir majority of this degree out of my savings. I will have about 10k of debt to pay off, which I will single handedly pay. I also do not want children until 35+, definitely not at 33. Not all women strive to start a family by 33. [/quote]

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