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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Say no. [/quote] I feel like I can't just say no. He's both of our son so I feel like I need to get his agreement. I can't just dictate. Am I wrong here?[/quote] You can tell him no, but he can also tell you no and take the child anyway. So it's better if you have a discussion about why you aren't comfortable with this plan right now, maybe you would be open to night at grandma's once a week when the kid is At least 3 years old. Maybe you would be okay with grandma coming to babysit for a few hours one night a week while you and DH go out for dinner. But you have to talk and communicate. I know DCUM hates this advise, but I think a few sessions of marriage counseling might be in order it seems you guys need help learning to communicate with each other and finding the balance between being a couple, being parents yourselves and managing your own parents.[/quote]
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