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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Say no. [/quote] I feel like I can't just say no. He's both of our son so I feel like I need to get his agreement. I can't just dictate. Am I wrong here?[/quote] [b]The vetoing parent wins. Thi[/b]s applies to a lot of things - having another kid, moving house, choosing private school, agreeing to travel arrangements. It's good that you want consensus but consensus is not required for certain decisions affecting the whole family. Frequent overnights would be a hard no from me. My MIL has been pressing us to let DC sleep over for years now. I'm not saying never, but I think that young kids need a steady sleep routine, plus I want to see my kid. If you guys need a night out, consider having your MIL stay over while you go to a hotel. The cost snd inconvenience should help limit the frequency. [/quote] This is also bad advice. No wonder so mny of you have effed up kids and effed up marriages.[/quote]
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