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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok, you are getting child support, you work, he works and you cannot take care of 4 kids?  Sounds like you are living above your means.  You really don't want to rock the boat with her as you could get into a costly battle.  My husband's ex did that with my husband and the judge took away 2/3rds of what was ordered instead of giving her more like she asked.  Be grateful you have the kids and pay for them.  You pay your kids, he pays his. [b]You each pay 1/2 the house expenses[/b].  Done.[/quote]

OP here.  He cannot afford to pay half, specifically because he's paying all of these expenses for his kids.
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Then you need to get into a cheaper house and reduce your expenses so he can pay half.  I don't get your issue. He is lucky to have custody of his kids, being a man.  He will spend more fighting in court than he will get out of Mom.  My husband would gladly take that deal and make it work.  You are having him live above his means.  Maybe you each should live seperate for a while if its a huge issue.[/quote]

It's a big issue. They had to forgo a vacation because he refuses to make his ex wife accountable. He won't even ask her, so it's not a court issue.  OP is paying for the ex wife.
OP maybe have the ex take the kids to the dentist/doctors and she can pay it. Then get half from you guys later on. Let her do those appointments on her time. One way to deal with it.

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