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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Right, kids come first--which means DH needs to be pushing his ex-wife to live up to her side of the bargain. Wage garnishment, that kind of thing. That has the bonus impact of being good for the marriage. OP is doing her duty making sure DH's kids get what they need--but DH isn't doing his own duty here. He's the weak one.[/quote] OP said the ex-wife is bi-polar and borderline. Perhaps the husband feels like the best way to manage this is specifically to not push her and to pay more instead of poking the bear, so to speak. It doesn't sound like dealing with the ex-wife is a very easy thing and he's probably doing the best he can by protecting his kids and avoiding conflict with the ex-wife. [/quote]
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