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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, we don’t have password access to emails.  However we do have passwords to each other’s phone (same password) and we know the password for our devices so in theory if I had to get to his email I could and vice versa.  I have used that method to access his email and I told him when I did.  It’s been the case of having to book frequent flier tickets or something under a rewards program /customer account and either needed to reset a password or needed the email confirmation right away.   I’m not reading his emails in those cases, just getting that one email I need.   I feel like if there was something that he wanted to share (say cousin Joe emailed him) he would tell me how he heard from cousin Joe and it would be part of our conversation about our day.  If I suspected something going on, then honestly finding proof is one of those sanity check but reality is that if you are feeling suspicious of his behavior (and this is not typical for you) that doesn’t stop because of lack of proof.  He could just be good covering his tracks.  I remember someone on DCUM saying if it got to the point she felt she had to play detective, she would rather just start making plans to leave the marriage.[/quote]

+1 He could just as easily be using whatsapp, snapchat, DMs, facebook messenger, work email, google chat, etc to contact any potential side piece.  Or he could be doing none of those things and everything is fine.  But access to emails won't tell you that.

Sadly, a lack of proof doesn't mean much and won't bring any peace if you suspect he's cheating or doing something wrong.  [/quote]

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