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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for all the interesting viewpoints. I guess as a woman of the same age, it feels so strange to suddenly start experimenting with woman or changing directions and deciding I'm a lesbian. I know there is some fluidity in sexuality, this just felt like a really fast 180. Maybe she had been attracted to women previously and it was something she had never talked about, I don't know.

The demise of our friendship is must less about her being a lesbian and more about Anna and how she acts. I think if Anna had been a man -people would have spoken up about possible ulterior motives. But since it was a woman and she had decided she was a lesbian, it was as though everyone had to see her as courageous and strong and amazing for now being a lesbian and Anna too. It was interesting to see how differently the relationship and people in it were talked about by everyone because they were lesbians. Very different social expectations.

They live in California in a city with a large lesbian community so my friend's whole social circle and friend group has changed. 90% of the people they spend time with now are gay or lesbian.[/quote]

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