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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP can you two go on a 1 week vacation alone? Have you ever done that since the kids? My DH and I do it every year and I find it so important to just focus on us. We are much stronger and happier afterwards (married 6 years, 2 kids, sex 3 Times a week).[/quote]

OP here.  Good suggestion but no, we can't really.  Both our parents live overseas and we don't really have anyone that we could leave all three kids with.  They are young so a real handful to manage.  And yes  I know that kids affect sex but it started getting like this well before we were pregnant with number one, just didn't really see it and thought it was a phase/something she or I could or would change.[/quote]

I am the PP you are responding to. Our parents also live overseas. We usually visit them and “drop” the kids for a few days. You have 3 and I have 2, but maybe you can find a nanny that can help your parents? I really think that if parents focused a small percentage of their time on each other, these problems would not occur. Also, now you don’t seem to want to spend a whole week alone with her, but you should. You feel rejected and that you are very low on her priority list. She needs to rediscover you as well.

Also, my sex drive decreased a bit after getting married and even more after the two kids. I would be happy with once a week, but for him, I do it more (not a chore or anything, just something I don’t need as much anymore). [/quote]

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