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[quote=Anonymous][quote] "Sex dried up" is pretty vague -- are you initiating and getting shot down or you're both just busy and it's not a priority? As for the rest -- you don't care if she's home sick, you don't want to hear about her day, "she's not a bitch" but you don't care about her -- you are posting like the problem is her but you sound like a really bad husband in your own words. Like, not even a decent acquaintance, let alone lover.
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I think what OP is conveying is that the lack of sex has created a fundamental distance. Sex is critical to nurturing intimacy and bonding feelings (at least, it is for him). He continues to be a good spouse, on the surface, but he has disconnected from his wife because she has pulled away from him, physically and intimately.  OP, I dont blame you.

Try reading Passionate Marriage. But the thing is, you both have to want a better intimacy. Instead of her crying about not being a good wife, she should do something about it. When people get bored or too familiar, they tend to pull away when what they really need to do is go deeper. 
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