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[quote=Anonymous]I think this is a reasonable way to think, especially for a woman in OP's position.  Unlike other sorts of careers, OP's salary peaked in her 20s and then went down for her 30s and beyond.  She's looking at even MORE of a financial hit if she marries and has a kid or 2.  So she's in the odd position of having earned her nest egg in her 20s, and needing to protect it in her 30s and 40s.

But there's no reason to be all or nothing.  First of all, ascertain whether the money is separate property, or part of the marital properties.  Talk to a lawyer about whether you even need a prenup. Maybe you don't.

Second of all, realize that NOT spending that money on a house likely means you won't get the house you want. I don't think it's really tenable for you to buy your own house in a marriage with kids.  It has to be joint.  So that means you either contribute SOME money to the down payment; or you wait awhile longer to save up for the house jointly.
You also have to trade off money, time, and getting the exact house you want.

Third, empathize with your partner. How would you feel if the tables were turned? [/quote]

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