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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m shocked by the replies on this thread.

Absolutely no way would this be ok with me.

DH would have to tell FIL to never do this again.

If he ever did do it again, we would severely limit our time with FIL.

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Serious question, why? The child was, simply put, destroying the grandfather’s property. Regardless of what the item was, do you think this is OK? Because I do not. Do you feel the child should never be disciplined? (Which it doesn’t even sound like there was much discipline, just telling him to stop and referring to him as a bad boy).[/quote]

It’s fine for FIL to tell him no or stop, or to take away the plant so the child can’t touch it.

It’s not ok for anyone to tell my child he’s a “bad boy”.

Also, I will discipline my child. I don’t want my FIL to. Also telling a kid they are bad is not proper discipline anyway.

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But you were ok with your precious little destroyed of plants being with grandpa without you being right there?! Your kid was a bad boy for doing this in that minute, you, on the other hand, are a terrible parent non stop. You should have made your DS apologize to grandpa. It seems from your post that it was a proper discipline for that action as your child was "hurt," and didn't want to be bad. That is a lesson learned. Don't pick leaves off the plants unless given permission and in the back yard.[/quote]

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