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[quote=Anonymous]Either decline to report race or select bi-racial (Asian/white). My children are also bi-racial (African-American and white) and like a pp that some would see them as black, and some as biracial. My daughters would identify themselves as bi-racial and that is on all their high school applications. Their truth is they have some economic advantages due to their parents but they will also face some challenges whether it be due to sexism or racism. These days everything is more competitive, high schools, colleges etc. that trying to figure out what advantage someone had that you didn’t is wasted energy that isn’t moving forward. We are focusing on race as being an alleged benefit but being male applying to a school that is tilted toward female, applying to a mid-west school when you are east coast, having connected family, having an underrepresented major, first generation college, winning a major academic or athletic competition, the list goes on. And even if you think you have an edge, there could be another 100 kids with the exact same edge and the school is only going to take x number. I try to emphasize with my kids to put in the work so you can have more options but realize there is more than one path that leads to the same place. There isn’t one high school that is going to guarantee a certain top college.[/quote]
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