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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He’s not treating you well or respecting you. Do people make mistakes? Absolutely. What he is doing is dragging on with the mistake. There is no attempt to change or make amends.

Continue with the therapy and figure out why you ignored signs that were there before you got married. You saw them, but you chose to rationalize them or ignore them. Figure out why you did that so you can make a better choice next time.

It’s over with this guy. It will suck. Move on now. [/quote]

He begged me to stay,cried and said he was willing to do anything to save the marriage. He wrote me letters after letters of apologies about how heartbroken he was over what he did and how it was the biggest regret of his life. What i dont get is while he was telling me all of that, he was still lying about the details of the affair and that he was still in contact with the OW. He said he only texted her when he was depressed and I was not talking to him because we had a fight or something. Every week, he confessed to some new lies after I keep digging and asking questions when the story doesnt make sense, or finding evidence, and he tells me that he lied because he did not want to hurt me. He just wanted us to move on from the affair without having to share the details because he did not want to see me hurt, so he keeps lying not to hurt me[/quote]

So what’s your point in sharing this? He clearly has issues and is incapable of being the partner and spouse you need AND deserve. He can beg and plead all he wants. He’s still lying and disrespectful.  Be done with this and begin picking up the piece of your life. The sooner you end this, the sooner you will begin to feel better. [/quote]

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