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[quote=Anonymous]My DH and I lived together for two years before we got engaged, then we were engaged for one year before we got married. I think the big key is WHY you are living together - is it just because one lease is up and 'I might as well move in with you because it makes sense financially,' Or because you are building a life together with a long term commitment in mind. DH and I both had parents who divorced (his mom was married and divorced THREE times.) So we both wanted to make sure we were ready to make a lifelong commitment to each other, and living together before we got engaged was a big must for us. Slow and steady style. But both decided when it was a good time for us to get engaged, and then we wanted to get married as soon as possible afterwards. I think super long engagements are a bigger red flag than living together before marriage. [/quote]
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