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[quote=Anonymous]You need to talk this over with your husband. The lesson here is that NOTHING can be shared with such an overprotective and anxious person like your MIL. She will always manage to turn it against you and others. It will be hard for your husband not to say certain things! He will continue to share some info, not necessarily financial, which she will continue to use against you. He must also explain to her that a couple is united in its finances as well as everything else, and makes joint decisions. He will likely have to repeat that several times every year. My mother does the same thing with my husband. I made a grave mistake early in our relationship by complaining about him to her, and since she was already super worried, it spurred her to actual accusations and verbal attacks on both of us, but mainly directly at him. So, first, get your husband on board. [/quote]
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