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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry you are going through this. I completely understand why this would cause you to feel violated and emotionally denied. I agree with you that this behavior should not be happening and I think you're right to not pretend that it's okay or that you're okay with it when you're not. Do you think he would be willing to go see a counselor with you? My husband and I went through a difficult season where we on very different pages with the problem at hand, and we just couldn't resolve it on our own so finally we went to counseling. I personally found it so helpful as I felt like I finally had some support and help in getting my husband to understand where I was coming from. They really helped us work through it in a way where we both felt safe and supported. Even if your husband might not be willing to go, maybe it could be a place where you could find some support. I really hope things get better, and you are able to find some support.    [/quote] OP here thank you! He doesn’t want to talk to a counselor but has acknowledged he has a problem and need to work on it. I do hope he is genuine. [b]Meanwhile I need to find a way to get over the hurt[/b].[/quote]

No. You have to find a way to make him crawl and beg for mercy, more like. You don't seem to understand, OP. This isn't some sort of small mistake. This is a big one. I would NEVER make myself available in any way to my spouse who flirts with other people. There would be no discussion, not lifting a finger, no nothing. For me that's a hill to die on.

You're going along with this and that's why he finds it hard to stop.
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