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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can’t change other people, but other people who love you will make changes to make you happy. My husband doesn’t care if shoes are worn in the house, still-clean clothes are left on the table instead of hung up again, etc., but he knows I do and he’s trained himself to do things the way I want them because it makes me happy. He mentioned once that he hates taking the trash to the curb so I took over that job. I’ve always thought this was the plus of living with a spouse instead of a roommate: your happiness is so important to them that they’ll do inconvenient things they don’t think matters because they’re important to you. [/quote] That’s true but to go with it you have to recognize where/how often he’s doing this so you don’t just continue to ask for more and so you remember to reciprocate (reciprocation probably isn’t OPs issue unless DH is hoping she’ll join the game playing)[/quote]
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