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[quote=Anonymous]I am okay with what my husband has done.  It has been an emotional rollercoaster with a lot of crying and screaming (me) and pleading (him), but I have forgiven him fully and want to start fresh.

I get what happened. He was 30 when we met but was a teenager at heart and just didn't know what to do when he met his wife.  According to him, he knew from day one and that is why he was so nervous.  In his prior relationships, there was less pressure, so he could be more open.

Plus, we also have two kids together so I'm trying to be the mature and responsible one here.  We will go to counseling and try to sort it out, but meanwhile, I need to know if his friends will accept me.  I can't ask DH to choose me versus his friends, because he either chooses me (and his friends hate me even more) or he chooses his friends (and I lose him and our kids lose a dad).  I don't see how DH and I will have a good foundation for a relationship as long as all his friends hate me and they are constantly trying to get him "out."  I want his friends to like me, and he is willing to write the letters instead to make this work.  What should he say? We both just want to repair this damage.[/quote]

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