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[quote=Anonymous]I suggest that a talk about what being a grown up and a part of the family is in order. Calm talking Dad, and not a screaming, out of control dad. What I mean is that stepson needs to have a talk about what it means to be an adult. To understand that in this house we are a family, and that it is a common courtesy to let people know where you are going, when you will be back, point out that Dad doesn't just take off for the night or brings people over without telling you and his kids what he is doing. That even when you are off to grocery store you probably say that you are going if other family members are at home. Time for boundaries is over, time for acting like an adult isn't. Calmly explaining that he is a part of the family and how adult members of the family act is in order. There is no reason to be sneaking his girlfriend in, but rather invite her over for dinner and since it is clear they are having sex, better to know she is there than to hide things. It is time for respect of DSS and his respect of Dad and you. Have your DH explain to him how families function respectfully. Since your DH is pretty relaxed about pot and who knows what else, why is his son so sneaky and feels he needs to lie about where he is and sneak his GF in?[/quote]

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