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Reply to "I need to leave my husband but don't know how"
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[quote=Anonymous]Is there a part of you that is addicted to this cycle - pain, anger, fighting, togetherness - again and again. Is there a secondary gain in there for you? Is the pattern replicating your family dynamics growing up? If you feel like you would rather kill him than leave (not necessarily literally, but emotionally) then you are likely codependent and are as entrenched in this endless cycle as he is. Therapy is key - he may be sick, but you aren’t healthy right now either, and you need to be, for your daughters. They’re h hearing the screaming too, obviously - that’s horrible for them. Get some help.[/quote]
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